16 April 2026

Cooks (11) Guest Blogger W Johnson on Marion L Cook Antilla

Marion Lottie Cook, My Grandmother. 

By Guest Blogger W. Johnson

Just seeing a picture of my Grandmother flooded my mind with memories. 

Every week my grandmother "Gram" (Marion Cook Antilla) would drive over to my aunt (who was her daughter) Gwen's house in her white Saab which had with moon roof. 

 Gram lived in a sweet, two-story, dark brown cedar shake-sided house in Rindge, New Hampshire, only a few miles away from Jaffrey, NH where Gwen lived.

Every week, aunt Gwen would set her mother Marion's hair. I remember Marion carrying a shoe box which held her hair rollers into Gwen's house. 

Sometimes, as a kid I got to watch my Aunt Gwen set her mother's hair. Afterwards wrapping my grandmother's head in a small scarf and then tying the ends in the front of her head, carefully tucking in the ends of the tie.

Aunt Gwen was considerate: always sent her mother home with a dish of something. 

She took such good care of her mother's needs-always with a pleasant look on her face.

Cooks (10) - Marion L Cook & Andrew Antilla - Alcoholism Invades

 Secrets
There a some secrets I'm privy to that I found out by accident. A few years ago I was scanning photos with my mother. She told me one of my father's uncles had an entire family.
It was a secret because  it was a scandal.One of my grandmother's brothers married and had a large family, then took a mistress, and had a large family with her. He worked to keep both families afloat financially.And of course, now his offspring's DNA is surfacing. 
When Secrets Are not Scandals
With time, some things are re-labeled and become acceptable. My grandfather was a "bastard"-- it used to be a carefully guarded secret but now that it's commonplace to have children without married parents, it's still a secret, but no longer a scandal.
I accept given knowledge usually, but sometimes I reassess the givers bias. For example, my husband's mother brother died from alcoholism. Their father had died from alcoholism as well (Andrew Antilla). She identified her blood relatvies who was an alcoholic. Next to her father, Andrew Antilla, she wrote:  “ALCOHOLIC”   
Let's Revisit This.
Decades had passed since I saw that paper and only late did it dawn on me that all the identified alcoholics were men. Not unusual. 
But what about his wife, Marion Lottie Cook?  I realized that it wasn't just her father who was an “alcoholic,” but her mother was, too. It was not as widely acknowledged that women could suffer from excessive drinking.
Now I wonder did her parents' alcoholism shape their daughter's, (my mother-in-law) youth? 

It must have been so very hard for her: she was the eldest of 5, to not have a sober parent.

The Truth. 

Looking at it from a distance of several years, I'm certain that both of Ruth's parents Andrew Antilla and Marion L Cook Antilla, were alcoholics.  

Andrew Antilla Marion Lottie Cook May 1934, New Hampshire

14 April 2026

Cooks (8)- John Levi Cook - Mass Regiment, Civil War, Returns North to Run a Store in Maine

 John Levi Cook  
Vitals: Son of John Cook (b 1805) and Cynthia Metcalf
He was born abt 1841 in Ashburnham, MA
Died 28 Nov 1910 in West Bath, Maine
 
John Levi Cook married Christiana L Petts (my husband's 2nd great grandmother)
She, Christian L Petts, was born in 1845 in Stoddard, NH or in Nelson, NH. She died 30 Sep 1871 in Concord and was buried in Keene, NH
She had given birth to their only child in late June of the same year.
Their son was Don Ferdinand Cook (great grandfather of husband) who was born 24 Jun 1871in  Keene, NH and died 16 Dec 1939 in Keene, NH.
 John Levi Cook's Civil War Duty
John L. Cook of the Union Army was assigned to the 21 Massachusetts Infantry (21st Regiment, Massachusetts Infantry), Company G.
His rank when he mustered in was as Musician, and his rank when he mustered out: Principal Musician (he was a drummer).
 A family source, Bob Cook, wrote in the 1990's that, "His drum is still owned by the family.”  (where it is, we don't know!)
 Maryland
John L Cook was involved in guard duty to protect railroads in Maryland, quite possibly in Baltimore secured by Union troops as it had a large number of Confederate sympathizers.
The General who led this was from Massachusetts as was his regiment.
 North Carolina/VA border
He was then in North Carolina under General Burnside–likely in the opening phase of what came to be called the Burnside Expedition at the Battle of Roanoke Island, an amphibious operation of the American Civil War, on February 7–8, 1862.
This was fought in North Carolina Sounds, a short distance south of the Virginia border.
 
After this, John L Cook was with General Pope's fight at Sulphur Springs at what is called “The First Battle of Rappahannock Station” in August 1862, in Culpeper County and Fauquier County, Virginia. The two armies fought a series of minor actions along the Rappahannock River, including Waterloo Bridge, Lee Springs, Freeman's Ford, and Sulphur Springs. 

He then went a bit further north/west to:
1st - The Second Battle of Bull Run or Second Manassas, Virginia, August 28–30, 1862 and
2nd - To the Battle of South Mountain, MD, September 14, 1862
3rd - He fought in Maryland at the Battle of Antietam in Maryland (a very bloody battle) on September 17, 1862.
Fredericksburg, Virginia
Then the army turned south again to Fredericksburg, Virginia.
By November 1862, his army was perched at the Rappahannock River opposite Fredericksburg, VA.
The Confederate army established a strong defensive position across the river in the town.
After waiting for weeks for the the arrival of pontoon bridges, the Union general finally began to look for places to cross the river to attack.  
Rappahannock River at Fredericksburg, Virginia

Not until December 11 did the Union cross the Rappahannock to attack the Fredericksburg.  On December 13, 1862  Lee defeated the Union army at the Battle of Fredericksburg (VA). The Union retreated back across the Rappahannock River under cover of night. 

Unfortunately John Levi Cook was shot in the knee at Fredericksburg and captured very likely during battle of December 13, 1862.
City of Fredericksburg from Union side
John L Cook is freed on the field. Probably not an escape but a parole. The armies usually didn't have the time or the resources to handle prisoners; they were “paroled.” Parole was a sort of solemn promise to not return to your Army until you were exchanged for another prisoner.
However, in practice it meant most men took their papers and went home permanently.
 
Mustering Out
 John Levi Cook mustered out of service in 1863, but since it was December 1862 when he was captured then loosed, he probably formally mustered out once he made his way out of Fredericksburg.
North: Marriage and Maine 
At some point he made his way north. His home was on the Mass/NH border and some how he met (or re-met) Christiana Petts from a town north of Keene, New Hampshire. I can only speculate. Perhaps they knew one another prior to the war? 
They wed in New Bedford, Massachusetts on April 8, 1868. She had a child, Don Ferdinand Cook (my husband's great grandfather) in June of 1871, but died only a few months after childbirth. 
John L Cook later married Abbie Everline Clifford. He spent the rest of his life in Maine. Why he went to Maine, I don't know. He worked (or owned) in a store in Winnegance, Maine like this one.


13 April 2026

Cooks (7) - MURDER!? John Cook Jr and his wives.

 MURDER? John Cook Jr / Roxanna Lane

As a genealogist you read all sorts of human experiences: the good, the bad and the ugly. But I never expected to find someone indicted and tried for murder.
 
John Cook Jr, the father of John Levi Cook (subject of post #1), reminds me of how little I know his John Levi Cook's childhood.
 
John Cook Jr was born in Winchendon, Mass, on 5 Mar 1805, to Anna Beal and John Cook. 
 Winchendon is close to the New Hampshire state line, as is Ashburnham, MA, the location he settled in. In the 1845 map below, Winchendon is just left of the green area (which is Ashburnham). You see "Rindge" and "New Ipswich" --those towns are in New Hampshire.
In March 1832 he and Roxanna Lane announced intentions to wed. He was 27 years old at the time, she was 39 years old. (Somewhat unusual for an older woman to marry a man more than 10 years younger.)  Because it was not customary to keep your maiden name, Roxanna had never been married. (It's possible either one or both had once been engaged, but no evidence of a marriage). 
 
They were married 3 April 1832. 
 
Roxana's father held much land in Ashburnham--he acquired land from relatives through the years, and eventually was prosperous as a result. (it's quite possible he established businesses on the land).
 
John Cook's and his wife had a baby girl they named Sarah Roxanna Cook on 6 Oct 1833, when Roxanna was 40 years old.
 
1834 - Quite a year. 
Unfortunately the baby's mother, Roxanna, died 24 Feb 1834, before the child was a year old. A few months later, his father-in-law, Benjamin Lane, makes a will. 
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8 Apr 1834  
A summary of Benjamin Lane's will.  
His will provides $100 to his infant granddaughter, Sarah Roxanna, the daughter of the deceased Roxanna, to be paid one year after his decease.  "And it is my will that her father should be appointed her guardian to manage and to take care of her legacy." (that would be John Cook). Other property was divided amongst the sons. All daughters, who were married would have one share. 

There was a yet unmarried daughter, Melinda, "who lives with in my family" to be included in the one share equally divided. Moreover,"The several sums which I have advanced to my said daughter (and may hereafter advance to them) and which are on my books to be deducted from their portions respectively."

Throughout the entire will, Benjamin is clear that his "books" will reflect the amount to be deducted, whether for the Howard children or Melinda. It is a meticulous will--it was so specific it made me wonder about the family relationships. He seemed to have a strong desire that no one be untreated unfairly in money once he had died and no longer had oversight.
 
1834 was not yet over: Before the year was out, John Cook remarries.
 
John Cook Jr was 29 when he married Cynthia Metcalf. Cynthia was 17 when she married John Cook on 12 November 1834. 

Nothing is very unusual here except he marries a woman much older than he, then after her death, his second wife is 12 years younger than he. 
We're not judging, just noting.


As I mentioned, the will of Benjamin Lane had been drawn up in April of that year. He, the father of the deceased Roxanna Lane Cook, died 1 1/2 years after making his will, in Dec 1835.
 
John Cook Jr and wife 2, Cynthia Metcalf have three children:
 1 George W Cook 1836–1855
 2 Martha Jane Cook 1840–1910
 3*John Levi Cook 1841–1910 (*ancestor)
 
But Cynthia, his 2nd wife, dies in 1844, when the youngest is only 3 years old. They were married for 10 years.


So far their life has been sad, but now it gets strange. In 1846, John Cook is charged with murdering his 1st wife, Roxanna Lane. I could not find the details. Apparently he was tried in Worcester (the county seat). 

1848 was a bad, bad year for John Cook Jr

On February 21-25, 1834, in Ashburnham, Worcester County, John Cook Jr. was accused of mixing and administering poison (white arsenic) to his wife, Roxanna Cook, ultimately resulting in her death on February 25, 1834.

The case was brought before the Court of Common Pleas in Worcester, with the indictment returned by the Grand Jury in September. Proceeding/court trial continuing into October and December 1848.

In October and December 1848, John Cook the younger stood trial in Worcester County after being indicted for murdering his wife by poison. He was found not guilty by a jury on December 7, 1848, leading to his discharge.

Dates

  • February 21–25, 1834 (events involving John and Roxanna Cook)
  • September 1848 (Grand Jury indictment, Court of Common Pleas)
  • October and December 1848 (jury trial held and judgment/proceedings)

Names and Relationships

  • John Cook Jr., husband of Roxanna Cook (accused)
  • Roxanna [Lane] Cook, wife of John Cook Jr. (deceased)

Names and Relationships

  • John Cook Jr (called, “the younger” defendant in the trial)
  • Benjamin F. Thomas (assigned counsel for John Cook)
  • Milton Whitney (assigned counsel for John Cook)
  • John W. Lincoln (Sheriff)
  • Isaac Davenport (jury foreman)
  • Other jurors: Edward Aldrich, Gilman Day, Asa E. Edmunds, Joseph M. Green, Asa Kilburn, Asa Marcan, Samuel Patrick, Henry B. Pratt, Jesse Spaulding, Alvah A. Stone, Isaac N. Stone (jurors in the trial)

Text of court documents (original docs below text)

Page 1

Commonwealth . vs Cook October , 1848, by adjournment , December , 1848 .

The Jurors for the Commonwealth aforesaid , on their oath present That John Cook the younger of Winchendon in the County of Worcester, yeoman, contriving and intending one Roxanna Cook wife of said John Cook , with person feloniously willfully and of his malice aforethought to kill and murder , on the twenty first day of February in the year of our Lord one thousand Eight hundred and thirty four and on divers days and times between that day and the twenty fifth day of the same of February , willfully , feloniously and of his malice aforethought did mix and mingle a large quantity of deadly poison, to wit, White Arsenic in certain food and drink which had during the time aforesaid, at divers days and times been prepared for the use of the said Roxanna Cook to be eaten and drunk, by her, the said Rosanna Cook, he the said John Cook then and there well knowing that the said food and drink, with which he the said John Cook did so my and mingle the said deadly poison as aforesaid was then and there prepared for the use of the said Roxanna Cook with intent to be administered to and taken by her for her eating and drinking the same, and he the said John Cook then and there well knowing that the said White Arsenic so as a?id by him mixed and mingled in said food and drink to be a deadly poison, and the said food and drink, with which said deadly poison was so mixed and mingled as aforesaid, afterwards to wit on said twenty first day of February, and on said divers days and times were delivered to said Roxanna Cook and taken by her to be eaten and drank by her, and she the said Roxanna Cook not knowing the said poison to be mixed and mingled with said food and drink, did afterwards to wit, on said twenty first day of February and on said divers days and times , there eat, drink and swallow down several large quantities of said deadly poison so mixed and mingled as aforesaid with said food and drink, and the said John Cook that he might the more certainly and speedily destroy the life of the said Roxanna Cook on the twenty third day of said February , with force and arms at Ashburnham aforesaid October, 1848 , by adjournment , December, 1848, did, knowingly, willfully, feloniously and of his malice aforethought did mix and mingle a large quantity of deadly poison, to wit White Arsenic , with certain sling, he the said John Cook then and there well knowing the said White Arsenic to be a deadly poison, and afterwards to wit , on said twenty third day of said February at said Ashburnham the said person so mixed and mingled as aforesaid with the ring aforesaid feloniously willfully and of his malice aforethought, the said John Cook did give and administer to the said Rosanna Cook to take drink and swallow down , and the said Roxanna Cook not knowing the person aforesaid in the sting aforesaid to have been mixed and mingled as aforesaid afterwards , to wit , on said twenty third day of February aforesaid , at said Ashburnham , the said poison so as aforesaid mixed and mingled , by the procurement, and persuasion of said John Cook did take drink and swallow down, and the said Roxanna Cook of the poison aforesaid and by the operation thereof, on said twenty third day of February aforesaid at said Ashburnham , became and was sick and greatly distempered in her body, of which said sickness and distemper of body occasioned by the eating drinking and swallowing down into the body of her the said Roxanna Cook of the person aforesaid so as aforesaid mixed and mingled with the food drink and sling aforesaid she the said Roxanna Cook from the said several days and times on which she had so eaten drank and swallowed down the person as aforesaid until the twenty fifth day of February aforesaid did then and there languish and languishing did live and on said twenty fifth day of February aforesaid at Ashburnham aforesaid , she the said Roxanna Cook of the poison aforesaid so eaten drunk and swallowed down as aforesaid and of the sickness and distemper aforesaid , thereby occasioned, did die . And so the jurors aforesaid upon their oath aforesaid do say that the said John Cook , he the said Rosanna Cook in manner and form , and by the means aforesaid, then and there feloniously willfully and of his malice aforethought, did kill and murder, against the peace of said Commonwealth and contrary to the form of the State in such case made and provided. This Indictment was returned by the Grand Jury into the Court of Common Pleas, at a term thereof holden at Worcester within and for the said County of Worcester on the fourth Monday in September last.

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1848, by adjournment, December 1848

The Court , that , as soon as might be , the above named John Cook the younger , should be served with a copy of the aforesaid Indictment, with the order thereon , by the Sheriff of said County or his Deputy , and that in manner aforesaid , the said John Cook the your or should be notified that the said Indictment would be entered at the Term of the Supreme Judicial Court, next to be holden at Worcester , within and for the County of Worcester , on the first Tuesday of October then next, then and there to be heard and determined as the law directs . And it appearing to the Court here that the said Indictment charged the said John Cook the younger with a crime punishable with death.

It was ordered by the Court there, that the said Indictment, together with the several orders of that Court, made thereon , should be transmitted to the Supreme Judicial Court , next to be holden at Worcester , within and for the County of Worcester , on the first Tuesday of October , then next , there to be entered and proceeded upon according to law. And the Court there further ordered, that the said John Cook the younger , who was then in the custody of the Sheriff of said County , in our jail at Worcester , in said County , should be held in confinement in our said Jail, until he should be delivered therefrom by due course of law .

This Indictment was accordingly transmitted to this Court, and entered in the same Court for this County at October Term, 1848 when the said John Cook the younger , came before the Court , under the custody of the Sheriff of said County , and was set to the Bar and arraigned upon said Indictment, and having been enquired of how he would acquit himself thereof, the same said that thereof he was not guilty, and thereof for trial put himself upon the Country , and at the request of the said John Cook the younger, Benjamin F. Thomas and Milton Whitney , Esquires , were assigned by the Court , as counsel for the said Cook . and thereupon the said John Cook the younger, was remanded to the Jail in said County , from whence he was taken , and on motion of the said Cook the trial of this Indictment was postponed to the fifth day of December 1848 , to which day this Court was adjourned and afterwards , on said fifth day of December this Court was further adjourned to the seventh day of the same December and now in this present adjourned Term , to wit on the seventh day of December 1848 .

The time assigned for the trial of the said John Cook , the younger , before the Court here , again comes the said John Cook the younger , under the custody of the Sheriff of said County , and is placed at the Bar , and the said Thomas and Whitney October , 1848 , by adjournment , December , 1848 . assigned by the Court as Counsel for the said Cook , also appear a Jury is thereupon empannelled to try said Indictment , to wit ; Isaac Davenport , who is appointed Foreman by the Court and Feblows , namely , Edward Aldrich , Gilman Day , Asa E. Edmunds , Joseph M. Green , Asa Kilburn , Asa Marcan , Samuel Patrick Henry B. Pratt Jesse Spaulding , Alvah A. Stone , & Isaac N. Stone who being sworn to speak the truth of and concerning the premises , after hearing all matters and things , in relation to the same , return their verdict therein , and upon their oath say , that the said John Cook the younger, is not guilty ;

It is therefore ordered by the Court that the said John Cook the younger, be discharged of said Indictment and permitted to go so thereof discharged, without delay. Ordered , that the sum of One Hundred Twelve dollars and Forty Six cents , be paid out of the County Treasury , to John W. Lincoln for attendance as sheriff of himself and deputies at October last and this adjournment and disbursements , as by the account on file , examined and allowed. (END)


He was acquitted but she had been dead for 15 years by the time he was acquitted.
 A newspaper clipping adds unsubstantiated details:
Apparently the first wife's sister, Melinda (who had been unmarried at the time) was "the dreaming witness" who believed John Cook poisoned Roxanna.
It does not specify which sister contradicted her in "material points." But the jury did not deliberate long. 
 (One has to wonder what would lead Melinda to make an accusation to lead to an arrest at this time, so long after her death?)  
Original Court Record 1/2 (Worcester County, MA)

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Court Record with Verdict highlighted 2/2 (Source: FamilySearch. org)

 

12 April 2026

Cooks (6) John Cook And Anna Beal and their many children

 

John Cook, son of Enoch W. Cook and Mary Foster, was born on April 16, 1774, in Groton, Massachusetts.
He married Anna Beal on April 16, 1798 in Cohasset, Massachusetts. (Beal is sometimes spelled “Beals”)

Anna Beal was born in 1778 in Hingham, MA to Abel Beal and Deborah Lambert.

They settled in Winchendon, MA.  There are recorded born to them 4 children who lived to adulthood. John died at 74 in 1848 in Winchendon, Massachusetts.

Anna’s father Abel Beal(s) died in 1805 and bequeathed his daughter Anna $10.  

"to my daughter Anna Cook, ten Dollars;" Abel Beal's will

John Cook and Anna Beal’s children:

John Cook and Anna Beal lived in Winchendon Mass and many of their children married Ashburnham families

1 Anna- B 21 Jul 1798; M.  John lane

2 Tryphenia -  B 9 Sept 1799; M. 1819 Thomas Flint. They moved to New York

3 Mary Foster – B 23 Apr 1801 M. Samuel Baldwin

4  John - B 20 Mar 1803 D. as an infant

5  *John (Jr) - B 15 Mar 1805 (*ancestor)

6 Deborah - B 30 Jul 1806 M. Joel Merriam

7 Martin - B 1 Mar 1808 stayed on homestead, Winchendon

8 Eliza Clara (called “Clara”) - B 26 Jan 1810 M. 27 Nov 1833 Milo Derby

9 Edward - B 12 Jun 1812 D in Saint Louis. Son Lemuel W Cook was a photographer in Boston

10 Ivers - B 21 May 1814 M. Dorothy Miller; moved to Westminster VT

11 Abigail - B 17 May 1816 M. Abner Moore of Sharon NH

12 Eliza - B 26 Mar 1820 M. 1842 Ruben Buzzel. Moved to Rindge, NH in 1862. She D. in 1883, had five children.

13 Johanna - B 15 Aug 1822 M. John N Richardson lived in Winchendon & in Fitzwilliam NH

Anna Beal Cook died 11 Sept 1839 in Winchendon, Mass at 61.

John lived for almost 10 more years, dying in Aug 1848 at 74 in Winchendon, MA. Both John and Anna are both buried in Winchendon, MA.